It’s easy to say but hard to do. It has to do with our self confidence and how much we want to please others or being praised than criticized. My personal struggle all my life. I was a timid kid and father was a dominant figure and had little patience when he was younger with a volcano like temper that erupted without warning. So I grew up learning to try to please him and other authorative figures. But my rebellious personality always found a way to escape his “rules”. however, escape is not building the correct character. Now, I need to do the right thing the right way. Learn to build that belief in myself, that ever elusive self confidence, letting go of judgements and criticisms either from within or without. Life is filled with learning and improvements. I am never finished.
It’s easy to say but hard to do. It has to do with our self confidence and how much we want to please others or being praised than criticized. My personal struggle all my life. I was a timid kid and father was a dominant figure and had little patience when he was younger with a volcano like temper that erupted without warning. So I grew up learning to try to please him and other authorative figures. But my rebellious personality always found a way to escape his “rules”. however, escape is not building the correct character. Now, I need to do the right thing the right way. Learn to build that belief in myself, that ever elusive self confidence, letting go of judgements and criticisms either from within or without. Life is filled with learning and improvements. I am never finished.