We are having another great sunny day in the 70’s today! 

Had a girl’s day out with Connie yesterday.  We had great lunch and went around town in the afternoon.  Her son Drew made us each a T-shirt with glittering ‘Group Therapy’ on top when we visited his shop.  I was very excited.  The technology has come such a long way.  His shop is lined with state of the art embroidering machines controlled by computer.  And it’s sparkling clean and organized.  He is Connie’s son no doubt.  He also runs a Windows server and use adobe products to do graphics.  He is a multi-talented man.  Jen is a lucky girl.  They are getting married soon.

Connie made these cake toppers with rhinestones glued to them.  They look fabulous.  We also visited a donut shop, a wallpaper shop. 

When I got home, I was exhausted.  Had some of Leo’s freshly made Chili and spent the rest of the night resting in bed and knitted.  My stamina is just not there yet.  I didn’t feel too good last night.  But this morning after a good night’s sleep, I’m ok again.  Got to be patient with myself.

Leo and I went out to lunch and then to Walmart for some household stuff.  I was very happy to find a $5 baseball cap, a red one for me and a green one for Leo.  That was mu first cap so I was pretty excited.  Sometimes, simple stuff makes me happy. 

After a simple leftover dinner, I’m downstairs getting the new 1 TB drive setup and moving some videos onto it.   I’m rippimg some VHS tape  for Connie now and in the mean time, blog and surf on the net.  Benny is sleeping in his bed next to me and Tido is in front of the heater on his blanket.  I think Manfred is hiding in the closet to get away from Benny.  He seems to be reacting to the joing medicine I got for him yesterday very well, he is more playful since last night. 

Installed embeded video plugin for wordpress and tried it.   I’m able to show a youtube video but I really want to embed my other video files on the website.  Still working on it.

I think my stamina is getting better every day.  Although I felt a bit tired when we came home, I didn’t fall asleep right away.  Leo surprisingly did before me.  I did take a short nap and I’m up and working away now.  I’m meeting Connie tomorrow for lunch.  It should be fun.

Since Leo retired, he is using the office a lot more throughout the day.  There can only be one person at the desk the way it was setup.  So I finally decided to move my PC downstaris to my office today.  I have a lot more room to spread things out and do my video editing.  Connie brought me a lot of VHS tapes to convert to DVDs.  I can just come down to my office and start that project whenever I need to.  I do like this setup better than before anyway.

I used to do my computer work on a small workstation, I can not work long without feeling fatigue setting in.  Now, I work on the old dinner table  with lots of room to put my elbows and writing tablet and coffee cup, etc.  I can work for longer time now without backaches.

REally taking it easy in the past couple of days.  I think I am rushing a bit on my recovery going out shopping and stuff.   I started to bleed a little agian yesterday.  After all, it’s only been one and a half week so far. I should not rush it.

Went to Giant Eagle today and had to take a nap afterwards.  Man, my stamina or energy is just not there yet.  And now I feel a bit of pain after running up and down the stairs to get the grill started for the steaks.  Even though I don’t have sharp pains from the surgery, these little tell tale pains are there.  I need to pay attention to it more and let the body get the proper recovery and rest.

Whew!  It’s done.  Actually, it was done last Thursday on the 26th.  It went very well.  I actually passed out before I got to the OR.  he he.  And when I came to, I was in the recovery room but I was so sleepy I just went on sleeping for 3 hours.  I was goofy when I got to my room.  I was shooting everybody in the room with my pretend gun.  And I don’t think I was making full sentences when I talked to friends and ey.  

Everything went well though.  I have had very little pain and was able to walk around the next day.  With only minor discomfort of constipation and coughing for a few days.  I went out for dinner with L tonight already to celebrate his last day of work and the beginning of retirement.  It’ll be a different life now with both of us at home all the time.  We’ll have a different routine and adjustments for sure.

But the op went well and the recovery went well.  And that’s something wonderful.

Changed the URL to dancingchimes.  It’s what I use for gmail and everything else.  I think it’s about time to switch and consolidate.

I can’t understand why time flies so fast.  It’s 3:30 again and I feel like I have just got started.  Spent a lot of time trying to get the booksmarks to sync between my Vaio and the Macbook Air.  They won’t.  I don’t know why.  It’s frustrating.  They kind of do but the newest link I added to GTD just won’t show up on my PC.  I even deleted everything in the bookmarks and let mobileme replace it.  Still that one doesn’t show up but it did put a lot in.  So I don’t know what the deal is.

Oh, and I tried to connect the camcorder to the macbook air, it won’t recognize it.  But I was able to upload the clip using Vaio.  So that wasn’t total lost of time there.  I stayed up till almost 2:30 last night learning and using the smartlist in Itunes.  I’m quite happy about the outcome.  I can organize my video clips and music a lot better now on the iphone.  It’ll be easier at the studio when we work on the wcs routine in the future. 

Then I tried to use monkeyGTD online version.  Took me a while to remember that I have to use firefox.  So lots of wasted time there.  But hey, this is what I like to do so I am not complaining too much here.

Connie called to get my thoughts on whether to buy a PC or a Mac.  I kind of leaning towards a PC for her since she is familiar with all the software on it.  She was in the car going to Ganley Toyota to look at a car.  I guess Tim’s car is still not working.  She complained how cold it is here.  We sort of had a laugh about that. 

Still need to go over the rumba routine a bit so I am more familiar with it.  Yesterday was a bit rough, I can’t spin at all.

Another rainy day.  I’m sitting in my office downstairs looking out the window to the lake.  Geese and ducks were flying in and out and even it’s gloomy outside, there is a sense of tranquility.  This is an ideal spot for the desk.  It reminded me of my childhood room facing the street.  It’s behind the family restaurant that my parents run and after the busydinner hours, I can still remember my dad, the cook and others sitting around at the street corner, chatting, smoking trying to get a breeze in the summer night.   That image will stay with me forever even though the house may be on the verge of being torn down to build high rise now.  And my dad is long gone and mother is in the nursing home.  Time changes and the world changes, but memories stay.

I read somewhere that says the journal writers all have the secret hope that someone will read their journal in the future.  That’s not true.  I don’t hope that someone will read this when I”m gone.  This is just a place where I come to park my thoughts when I need to let them out, whether they will be read or not, is not the purpose.  In fact, I would love that this is private and stays private.  But I’m too lazy to do it in a restrictive way either by location or means.  Web is the best medium for me.

This also plays into my decision for a good GTD system.  It has to include the web in some way.   It’s where I feel comfortable in. 

Just can’t get over this.  This location is the writer’s heaven.  Ducks are happy in the water right now.  Oh, heaven!

I stayed up and read “Living a Beautiful Life’ by Alexandra Stoddard.  Ritual is the word that she uses quite a lot.  Building beautiful riturals to enhance your surroundings and your life.  Yeah, I remember that.  And I have forgotten it for a while.  Yesterday, I was looking at the books on the shelves and saw all the book I love and still excite me to look at.  I pulled this one out and it is so soothing just to read the grace notes in it thinking about how I can implement some of them.   Flower on the desk, fragrant candles, boxes covered with pastel prints, a beautiful cup and saucer for coffee or tea.  Too often, I resort to practical ways instead of paying attention to things that bring beauty to my world of senses. 

Manfred was just coerced into laying on the blanket by the heater.  I had to push him onto it to show him that it’s a warm place to stay.  And he did.  So he’s resting at my feet as I type.  What can be better than this!

By chance I ran across David Allen’s presentation at Google on Youtube.  It got me back on the wagon for GTD.  I watched a lot of other related youtube videos and it also got me on to moleskine notebooks.  Thus I’m inspired today and went to Office Max and puchased new gel pens and pencils, tabs for the notebook.  I started off load the stuff on my mind to a quadruled writing tablet.  Plan to dig out the GTD book too to refresh my memory.  Life is good when your brain is challenged and also feels free to express itself.

Went to the OB/GYN yesterday and the news is the old news.  Still have the low grade whatever.  I asked the doctor what can we do about it.  She said we can keep an eye on it like we do regularly every 3 months or so and we can perform the leap procedure as many times as we want.  Or we can have a hysterectomy and drop the risk down real low.  Not zero cause we still need to keep an eye on it with regular checkup.

Well, it’s a big decision but some how it doesn’t feel like a big decision.  There is always risk when you have a surgery,  but I guess it’s Connie’s situation that helps me to deal with mine a little calmer than I would have.  I don’t know.  I’ll need to have 4-6 weeks to recover.  Which means I can’t dance during that time.  Maybe I’ll be able to work on the website and my knitting a lot more.  It’s not a bad thing actually.